Cosmo dating advice for women
‘Each of you will be bringing your own baggage into the relationship, so ensure you communicate honestly and openly and validate each other on daily basis.’ Ask yourself why you are dating an older man and what it is you find appealing about him, advises Campbell-Gillies.
‘Ask yourself the brutally honest question: "Am I in a needy place where this makes the most practical sense or is this true love? ‘Either way, lessons will be learned.’ ‘Sometimes I think the cons outweigh the pros,’ says Blatter, ‘but it really depends on how much you love a person.
"Men tend not to correct women because they're afraid women will shut down and not touch them at all. Kort recommends asking the author a key question: What about this fantasy do you like?
If you have a strong bond, it’s worth sticking out the rollercoaster rides.’ *Names have been changed.
Freud called female sexuality "the dark continent"; if that's true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. It's no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy's true identity.
However, Cape Town-based life coach Shelley Lewin thinks age is but a number.
While an older man represents security, stability, financial success, maturity and safety, this can be an illusion, she says.