Dating seeing each other difference
Most of the love stories we see in pop culture are rooted in infatuation…not real love.
While this makes for good entertainment, it isn’t real life.
Instead of you being his sanctuary and escape, you become a person (or vibe) that he wants to escape from.
Instead of him feeling like your presence fills him with joy and peace, he will feel like your presence drains him of joy and peace. I don’t point this out to blame you or make you feel bad. This is good news because I’m telling you: This is 100% under your control.
Instead, it is more like you are gasping for air, desperately hoping they’ll give you whatever it is you think you need from them.
Granted, even good relationships have a little bit of fixation mixed in with them (I must emphasize a little bit), but it is only during very occasional occurrences like arguments or when one or both partners are stressed.