Dating wrong guy

You don’t get to be a master in the sexual arts just by looking like it.

How will you know if a guy is going to be good in bed?

When I write dating tips and relationship advice for a new mode, I am writing to a female audience.

But neediness is not gender-specific – guys make the mistake of being “needy” too!

Some guys aren’t even conscious of a woman’s needs. Some people will tell you not to trust a guy who looks too good to be good in bed.

This type of pre-judging paves the way for a boatload of disappointment when you and your date finally get each other’s clothes off.

Basing a person’s skill in bed on their appearance is absolutely useless.

Put simply, a needy person doesn’t feel good inside and then saddles the other person with the responsibility to make them feel better… whoops, “my battery died, sorry I didn’t call you back last night.” Nobody’s perfect. When you boil it all down, neediness is not some set of behaviors. When a person takes on the belief that another person is responsible for their happiness, their sense of well-being and their sense of self-esteem, then it’s guaranteed that they’re going to act needy as a result of that mindset.

(FYI, we have a whole chapter on this in our new book “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want“) Even the kindest, most well-meaning, most empathetic guy won’t be able to satisfy a woman who acts needy the majority of the time. I would be pretty surprised if you never had a needy guy around you. Making someone else responsible for your emotions is a key ingredient in creating a toxic relationship type dynamic, so it’s very important to guard against doing that (as well as recognize when others are doing that towards you).

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