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Ladies, don't wait until you have a scar on your face to prove you have had enough.
Emotional & verbal abuse leaves deeper scars that no wound could ever show.
Trust your gut and your deep instincts, if it feels wrong IT IS WRONG.
He will make you feel shame and guilt for trying to leave.
I can’t diagnose the man, but I know in my heart he needed help. When he was under stress, I knew I was going to have a bad day.
by Blue Clover (California) I finally had enough of the Verbal and Emotional Abuse after being married for seven years and having two kids.
to say the magic is gone is an understatement, at least for me.
I had to face the fact that while we both shared a pain about all of this, he has the privilege of still being madly in love with me, of seeing me intact and good and worthy, and I remain…broken.
I saw the big picture, and it was complicated, sobering. At first, the relief of reconciling was wonderful and I thought that the separation was really the last ingredient of moving past all this, and being happy again. And he’s a better man, father, and spouse for all that we have struggled together. Its either accepting this sadness and moving forward with what is otherwise good, or going through the pain, complication, and destruction of a divorce, a two-home co-parenting relationship, of introducing (eventually) new people, new family systems, into this increasingly complicated situation, a greater financial burden…
Its been two months and I’m back to trying to wrap my head around this marriage. The man he is today is a kind, loving, generous, sweet, intelligent, successful man. And he is the father of my children, and a good father. We don’t have to sell the house, our home remains intact. On the other hand, I see the marriages of my friends and family members and, while they are not perfect and while I know that I can never really know what goes on in other marriages, there is a sort of… You know that feeling like, if you could do it all over again, of course you’d marry him? That you just accept him for all he is, and he accepts you, and that is what love is?